Welcome to another Read-it-if review, this time featuring a memoir of sorts, which I received from the publisher via Netgalley. I’m also submitting this one for the Nonfiction Reading Challenge hosted by The Introverted Reader. I can’t remember whether I mentioned that I would be doing this challenge, but I signed up at Explorer level, which is 6-10 books. If you’d like to find out more about the challenge, you can click on the challenge image at the top of this post.
But back to business. Today’s book grew out of a blog that the author began in an effort to reconnect with herself and find some purpose in her life. It’s called If You Find This Letter: One Girl’s Journey to Find Purpose Through Hundreds of Letters to Strangers and it’s by Hannah Brencher. Here’s the blurb from Goodreads:
Fresh out of college, Hannah Brencher moved to New York, expecting her life to look like a scene from Sex and the City. Instead, she found a city full of people who knew where they were going and what they were doing and didn’t have time for a girl still trying to figure it all out. Lonely and depressed, she noticed a woman who looked like she felt the same way on the subway. Hannah did something strange–she wrote the woman a letter. She folded it, scribbled If you find this letter, it’s for you on the front and left it behind.
When she realized that it made her feel better, she started writing and leaving love notes all over the city–in doctor’s offices, in coat pockets, in library books, in bathroom stalls. Feeling crushed within a culture that only felt like connecting on a screen, she poured her heart out to complete strangers. She found solace in the idea that her words might brighten someone’s day.
Hannah’s project took on a life of its own when she made an offer on her blog: She would handwrite a note and mail it to anyone who wanted one. Overnight, her inbox exploded with requests from people all over the world. Nearly 400 handwritten letters later, she started the website, The World Needs More Love Letters, which quickly grew.
There is something about receiving a handwritten note that is so powerful in today’s digital era. If You Find This Letter chronicles Hannah’s attempts to bring more love into the world,and shows how she rediscovered her faith through the movement she started.
* you like reading memoirs by people who have just barely cracked the quarter century in years on this planet
* you like wacky blog ideas that morph into meaningful projects in the real world
* you like your memoirs to deeply explore the author’s relationships and personal reflections
* you enjoy the idea of randomly leaving stuff behind for others to find (or as I like to call it, “guerrilla kindness” or “littering mindfully”)
It was for just this last reason that I picked up this book. Having featured books about yarn-bombing on the blog before, I am clearly one of those creatures that gets a kick out of people secretly leaving some little treasure (be it letter, crocheted door knob cosy or book) for some unsuspecting passer-by to find and enjoy. I was really hoping that this book would be something akin to a cross between yarn-bombing in letter format and the worldwide art and connection project begun by one man, known as PostSecret. (If you don’t know what PostSecret is, please check it out. It’s worth a look, for certain). Unfortunately, it read more like the developmentally typical learnings of a reasonably sheltered young woman in her twenties. Not what I was hoping for, by any means.
The actual letter project, in which Hannah puts out the invitation for anyone who wants a handwritten love letter from her to apply via her website, really takes a back seat in this memoir to a whole bunch of other happenings in Hannah’s life. I suspect that the idea was to show that she herself was reaching out to strangers in this way because of her own sense of disconnection, but a lot of the stuff that she talks about seemed to me to be pretty typical of anyone between the ages of about 18 and 30 who is trying to carve out an adult identity and some existential equilibrium. I really wanted to read more about the letter project, and let that speak for itself, than find out about her involvement in a volunteer service project, and a whole bunch of Faith related personal reflection.
Did you notice that Faith-with-a-capital-F? Yes, this is another blurb which I fear has mislead me and caused me to pick up a book that I probably would have passed on otherwise. That last line in the blurb – “If You Find This Letter chronicles Hannah’s attempts to bring more love into the world,and shows how she rediscovered her faith through the movement she started” – is not referring to her faith in humanity. It’s her Faith, as in her personal relationship with God. Now, I’ve mentioned before, that the fleshlings who own my shelf have a Christian leaning – they are even Catholics (of the rare non-lapsed variety), as is Hannah herself – so we have no objection to religious content per se in a book. What really gets on my horns though, is when blurbs don’t make this clear. If they said this was going to be a God book I could have made an informed decision. But they didn’t. So I got stuck wading through a whole lot of “Hannah returning home” (in the Catholic sense, not in the literal sense – in the literal sense, we get a nice little story about one Thanksgiving where Hannah is literally not allowed to return home. Not sure why it was included really), when I was really in the mood for “interesting social connection project”.
Now, don’t let my negativity bring you down. Others have read this book and called it “inspiring” and “captivating”. I would suggest reading it if it sounds interesting and make up your own mind. But I suspect that not all blog projects need to be made into a book. At least, not a book in a memoir format. For my (non-existent) money, I would have liked to have seen a lot more focus on the project and the benefits contained therein for not just the author, but some of the recipients of letters, and a bit less on the life-reflections of someone who seems to be a reasonably typical example of this particular age group.
Until next time,